Where Love Divides and Multiplies

Where Love Divides and Multiplies

(poem version)

Some families split,

and the adults circle the child/children

like a ring of roses,

quietly counting

who is doing enough,

who has done enough,

who is there enough.

Parent and Child Dance

But the child —

the child just stands in the middle,

open‑armed,

receiving.

love

moving forward in the world

Confidently

held on every side,

never having to choose.

Footnote - Four generations of split parenting - written about/ from my experience, but I would be the third generation beginnings for my future family. (yet I've only now just remembered my mum was also from divorce) 1950's

(poem version)

Some families split,
and the adults circle the child
like a ring of roses,
quietly counting
who is doing enough,
who has done enough,
who is there enough.

Parent and Child Dance

But the child —
the child just stands in the middle,
open‑armed,
receiving.

love
love
love

held on every side,
never having to choose.

Where Love Divides and Multiplies
(poem version)

Some families split,
and the adults circle the child
like a ring of roses,
quietly counting
who is doing enough,
who has done enough,
who is there enough.

Parent and Child Dance

But the child —
the child just stands in the middle,
open‑armed,
receiving.

love
love
love

held on every side,
never having to choose.

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