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Vessel Collection


Cup Logic — The Identity Poem


Cup Logic

Don’t be the jug.

Be the cup.


All my life I said,

I’m a cup half full.

Because in my world

half full meant positive,

good,

grateful.


But the truth was

I wasn’t half full —

I was full full,

brimming,

spilling,

no room for breath.


But the truth is

I was the cup full.

Too full.

Brimmed.

Spilling over

on everyone

and everything.


A cup that’s always full

has no space

for anything new.

No space for joy,

for rest,

for breath.


So now

I choose

half empty.

Half empty


isn’t pessimism.

It’s capacity.

It’s regulation.

It’s permission.

It’s space

for myself.


FOOTNOTE:

(I got the metaphor wrong — in my world “half empty” meant failure, but now it means capacity.)

Blurb

A collection of poems, metaphors, and lived wisdom about being a vessel in the world — not overflowing, not performing fullness, but learning the art of capacity. These pieces explore the truth that every vessel needs breathing space, and that half empty isn’t lack; it’s room to live.


Inspiration Molly my amazing daughter.


Do Not Fill to the Top

Poems and life lessons about overflow, overwhelm, and the beauty of leaving room. A collection for anyone who has ever mistaken “full” for “fine.”


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