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Tiny Hurts - Crushing Impacts

 


Tiny Hurts (Crushing Impacts)


We fill bags with the minutiae of life until the bag is full.

Put the bag down — you’ll feel free. You’ll stand tall and straight again.


It’s not about letting it go, even though you definitely should.

If we carried happiness and positivity the way we carry sadness and negativity, the world would be a different place.


Take my advice: if it doesn’t break your back in your mid 40,s, it certainly will in your 50,s.

Let go. Drop the bag. Stand up. Walk forward.


And every now and then, if you feel like it, go back into those dark depths of all the things you carried — but as time goes by, you’ll forget to. You’ll be more focused on the future and the good things coming, not the things that are gone.


Look forward, not back.

Step forward, not back.

Be present. Don’t live in the past.

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